We have 2 children & lived together for 10 years. Now apart, ex says we have a “common law” marriage in PA, is this true?
PA stopped recognizing common law marriages as at Jan. 1st, 2005. If you held yourselves out as married before then, you would have a valid marriage and many implications could apply. Talk to a local family law attorney about your situation.
I live in NY and my children live in PA. Which state do I file for visitation in?
Pennsylvania, assuming your children have lived here for at least 6 months, and there are no prior custody orders from another state.
I am custodial parent in NJ, NCP lives in PA where divorce was decreed. NJ child support laws are effective through college, so can I file for a support order in NJ?
If you have a support order as part of your PA divorce decree, then PA has jurisdiction and its laws control child support age limits. However, it may be possible to domesticate your child support case to NJ. Consult with a child support lawyer to determine if this is feasible.
How will my child support be calculated?
Courts have some discretion in methods used to determine support. Generally, the PA Support Guidelines will be the framework for calculation.
I owe some back child support, but my child is now 18. Do I still have to pay?
Yes. There is no time limit on arrears, and you are obligated to pay all child support owed.
How is spousal support calculated?
Spousal support is normally calculated following the Pennsylvania Support Guidelines. You can find them here.
We are filing for divorce and our child wants to live with me full-time. Will the court take his preference into custody determination?
It is the responsibility of the parents to agree upon custody. PA courts largely prefer a mutually agreed upon custody arrangement. If your spouse disagrees w/ child’s wishes, then you may ask the court to determine custody. A judge will consider his age, maturity and reasons in weighing his desire.
My custody order and children are in PA. Custodial parent wants to relocate my children to New York. Will the courts allow her to do that?
It depends on a number of factors; the most weighted being whether the move is in the children’s best interests. Read more information here.
My child support payments are current, but my ex is keeping the kids from me when I show up. What can I do?
In Pennsylvania, child support is a separate right of the child and not connected to visitation or custody rights in any way. You should continue making payments, and consult with an attorney experienced with child custody issues to see about a modification order, a Petition for Contempt, or both.
I have sole custody of my child. Can her other parent now be given custody rights?
Both parents of a child have inherent rights and standing to pursue custody. In some cases, such as where a history of violence or abuse is shown, a parent can lose those rights.

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